fold and contribute your own poppies
mindfully handmade with love
and grief: love's twin sister.
Red tissue paper
Black tissue paper
Green pipe cleaner stems
Scissors
A clean cardboard box
Black marker
Optional: if folding outdoors, try clean smooth stones or paperweights to keep the tissue from flying away.
You might also want to bring offerings, libations, a soft blanket, beeswax candle, or other special items to add good energy to the ritual.
Please do not write anything on the poppies. Just listen to them and allow them to speak for themselves.
Thank you!
See below for 2 instructional videos, totaling ~30 minutes, on folding and storing the poppies, along with some of the symbolism behind this practice.
A bit of context:
This version of tissue paper poppy folding has been adapted from Madison’s Library, (apologies for the Eurocentric term “Oriental” she uses), who in turn adapted it from Design Every Day.
With gratitude to Erika Ramirez for passing along this method, which she learned at an action for Gaza and Palestine on unceded Nisenan, Maidu and Valley Miwok lands (Sacramento, California), on 03 January 2024.
(We affectionately think of those paper poppy ancestors as the teosinte to our current corn! :)
If you wish to send poppies toward the 15,000 main collection, please mail to:
Lutheran Church of the Redeemer
4641 Marconi Ave.
Sacramento, CA 95821
For a deep dive into prayers, intentions, background, and invocations around the poppies, see our
Please note:
This ritual takes time.
The video tutorials above total approximately 30 minutes to view. Please allot additional time to obtain the materials, and then to do the cutting, folding, and reflecting.
This is not meant to be a quick and easy process.
It is a symbolic ritual that might help us feel our grief.
Inspirations for this ritual include the open-casket funeral of Emmett Till; the AIDS Memorial Quilt; and Buddhist practices of meditative, handmade arts.
The goal is not efficiency or uniformity.
The goal is to cultivate your
loving presence, honest emotion,
and strong determination to do
what Life calls you to do.
However you choose to relate to this grief ritual,
whether or not you contribute poppies to the 15,000 ~
we deeply thank you for your gracious care and kind attention.